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Originally Posted by Have Hope
And now? .. He's showering me with love and affection. And this morning, he told me "we're meant to be together.. as though he's trying to solidify with me that we cannot separate..
I've read that after an incident of abuse, that they "love bomb". So is that all this is?
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I'd think so. To his credit, he's afraid to lose you. You're a good person who is on top of his behaviours and I suspect he's aware he's a better person by being with you even though it's not enough and it's still damaging.
I'm in the same situation. This morning I woke up with multiple "I love you" notes taped to the walls, fridge, mirrors.. over compensating.
Gottman Institute sends out weekly emails (Tuesdays and Thursdays) about relationship strategies. He talks a lot about the Four Horsemen that is the death of relationships. Both my partner and I receive them. It might be worth a look?