Thread: Marriage may need to end: enormous grief and sadness
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Old May 11, 2020, 03:55 PM
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A standard part of the cycle of abuse is a period of kindness, often fueled by fear that the person being mistreated might actually leave.

I agree that the Gottman Institute is excellent!
Thanks, Bill.

Yes, I can see this in action now. I do worry that it's not genuine, though I feel his love coming across in a genuine way.

But the sudden hatred towards me makes me question everything.
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