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Originally Posted by Have Hope
It is. When I really think about it, he does a lot. He's frequently doing sweet things for me, whether it's picking up something from the store I may like, giving me a much needed back massage, washing my car for me, cooking a nice meal for me, or buying me fresh flowers because he knows I love flowers, he's usually doing something nice to keep me happy. I do value and treasure that about him.
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My partner does as well but what I find off putting is that there's motive (fear, guilt, manipulation) in it. Do you think he's doing all these wonderful things because he loves you or because he's afraid and is momentarily putting his best foot forward so you can both feel better about the situation?