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Old May 11, 2020, 06:23 PM
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My partner does as well but what I find off putting is that there's motive (fear, guilt, manipulation) in it. Do you think he's doing all these wonderful things because he loves you or because he's afraid and is momentarily putting his best foot forward so you can both feel better about the situation?
I don’t find that. He’s always been this way with me. Sure, a part of it may be in part to keep me and based partially on a fear of losing me. But I think he genuinely loves me too.
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