Men have a stronger sexual drive, it's natural.

You can't necessarily blame your husband for finding you attractive and wanting to be intimate with you. He may not understand what you're feeling, even if you did explain to him. Men and women handle things much differently when it involves emotion. Sometimes I think my husband must be cold since he doesn't poor as much emotion into something as I do, but I think his reaction is similar as other men.

What I think could be done is maybe let him know you're going through some stuff right now and you'll let him know when you're ready to intimate again, tell him you need time to deal with some stuff. Maybe he'll understand.