Hey all, I have a situation...my boyfriend of 2 years likes the sissy genre of pornography. He made a reddit account a few months ago and called himself a sissy on there. Though he never interacted with anyone on there, he did post pics (of other sissy’s) with dirty captions. None of him. Other men sent him messages, but he never replied or even opened them from what I could tell. He was following some other cross dressers on there. He left it open on his phone and I was pretty shocked by it. Partly due to calling himself a sissy, then having an account that could potentially connect him with real people. I have a few issues here.
-this is borderline cheating with people online
-this is kinda gay? Not sure. Thoughts?
-he says he is ashamed of it and actually gets grossed out just before finishing.
-he says he doesn’t want it in real life because he likes being a man.
-he identifies as straight and has no desire for other men
-he says he was never a ladies man, and that this type of porn could connect him more intimately with them. So much so he basically becomes one.
-I am just feeling off about it. I love him and want to understand it. Please help me understand this better, so I can be more open and accepting to it.