Last night, he tried to downplay our fights. He tried to claim that we've had only 5 real fights. We've fought a LOT more than that. I think he's prepping himself to claim that he doesn't cause problems in this relationship. He's already rewriting history. He's downplayed the fights that happened on our honeymoon too.

I don't see how this is ever going to improve. He's already battling to rewrite history. I think he will deny he has a problem and will refuse therapy and then I will have to leave.