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Old May 13, 2020, 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Is he seeing fights as something different than how you see it? Are those fights or disagreements? Some couples fight a lot and don’t consider it a fight, just business as usual. Or he thinks fights are some extreme things? If your husband previously had volatile marriage, what you guys have he might just view as minor bickering
That's a really good question. He did not include certain fights he said. He didn't think those were real fights. I, however, count them all as fights whenever it's become very heated and whenever he's raised his voice at me.

Of course, it's now difficult for me to remember all instances.... it feels like there's been more than enough for me to want to walk away though if he cannot make important and necessary changes. I guess that's all that matters.
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