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Old May 13, 2020, 10:03 AM
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Sorry you aren’t feeling well

Honestly...You don’t know this person. Texting and even video chatting isn’t a relationship.

Honestly if you’ve never even met I’d not expect daily phone calls. I think it’s unusual.

I’ve met my husband online and we probably exchanged one messaged a day, not back and forth texting and talked twice on the phone before we met. We didn’t call each other every day. Of course when we’ve met it all changed but even then I don’t think we talked on the phone every day between dates until maybe few dates, we exchanged few texts but that’s about it.

I’ve talked to men who demanded a lot of interaction early on and it was very bothersome to me. I usually didn’t want to continue.

I understand it’s tough to date now. You can’t meet. But you still can’t rush things. Just get to know people slowly. Also when you have kids at home sometimes dates (or video chats) have to be rescheduled or postponed. It doesn’t mean he lacks integrity. That’s just how it is with kids and custody arrangements