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Old May 13, 2020, 11:26 AM
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Nothing wrong with asking for what you want and speaking up but it’s different if what you are asking a man you barely know to be more into it than he is. It doesn’t work like this. He either naturally is into it or he isn’t. It’s better to observe how he acts and move on right away. If he really wanted to call and meet and see you, he would. You wouldn’t need to ask for it. That’s not something you need to fight for.

It was smart to move on. That’s your “speaking up”. Asking a man for more attention kind of doesn’t fall into “speaking up” in my opinion

Bottom line: good for you not to hang on to him. Smart move. Next!