Tonight suddenly I got very scared about all this -- what if he tries to stake any claim to furniture pieces that I bought for us out of my funds? I own or paid for most everything we have together. That's all very important to me. How will the logistics work out if we separate but still live together? How could I even manage that? What if he tries to screw me over and ruin my credit because he pays a car lease that's in my name? I will also lose my beautiful apartment. I know, I can find another. Omg. but I am scared.