Is your lease expiring soon? You don’t need to stay long if you decide to leave then, stay with your parents for a bit.

If you think he is the kind of person who would screw you over car lease or furniture, then it would be a big reason enough to get a divorce. I think it’s a red flag that you think he might act unkind or punitive in divorce, should it happen.

You can always split furniture. How much furniture is it? Did he bring anything into marriage that was his or he paid for during marriage? Stuff you bought with your funds or brought with you is yours. As about car he’d have to switch it on his own name.

Of course I hope none of this has to happen.