Beth -- I've done exactly the same kind of demanding and over-reacting that you seem to have done in this situation.

I understand where you're coming from. I also have come to understand that men have a different perspective and are not going to change just because women think they ought to. I also don't see that answering an email was so bad -- I might well have done the same thing myself if he went to the bathroom and I was waiting and bored.

Hope that you and he can work things out.