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May 14, 2020, 12:44 AM
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Member Since: Dec 2018
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 6,008
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Oh @HaveHope I am so sorry. Becca had the baby and its been a hell of a week and a half so I hadnt logged in. Does it have to be a confrontation? Can you write him a letter? I do not think you need to wait until the next fight, Even if there is no next fight I think you absolutely need therapy as a couple. What if you calmly spelled it out and then you walk away? Go for a walk, a drive or go to the bedroom and let him rant if he wants to. Hold steady and insist on counseling no matter if he gets made or threatens or not. Message me if you want. Hugs girl keep your chin up.
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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Thanks, Divine. 
If I am truly honest with myself, I believe I am afraid of a fight and another blowup from him if I confront him with the full truth right now. A part of me really hesitates. |
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