You're right, Hon. Sometimes these creeps escalate in their control and games. I just didn't want to add to your fear by saying so. Didn't know you know it. Cops know that but it seems standard proceedure to not arrest them until they do do something and harrassment isn't one of those arrestable things.

I hope you're keeping a journal of all he says to you and what he does. I was told to do the same thing.