It’s possible he is married too.

Come think of it I was once asked out by a guy I knew in a community, he wasn’t a stranger but I only knew him superficially. He asked me out but only wanted to text, not call, and texted at odd times and only during the week and then he wanted to set a date on weekdays in the evenings and late evenings, not on the weekend. Then he asked where would I want to go on a date and I suggested this one public park that also had a coffee place near by, he instead said he’d like to come over rather than going on a date. Hm

I told him that this arrangement won’t work for me and cut it off. Later I found out he had a live in long term girlfriend the entire time he was contacting me and asking me for dates .

So trust your guts