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Old May 14, 2020, 05:20 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Is your lease expiring soon? You don’t need to stay long if you decide to leave then, stay with your parents for a bit.

If you think he is the kind of person who would screw you over car lease or furniture, then it would be a big reason enough to get a divorce. I think it’s a red flag that you think he might act unkind or punitive in divorce, should it happen.

You can always split furniture. How much furniture is it? Did he bring anything into marriage that was his or he paid for during marriage? Stuff you bought with your funds or brought with you is yours. As about car he’d have to switch it on his own name.

Of course I hope none of this has to happen.
Our lease renews June 1 - so that is in two weeks. It is far too soon, and I am not ready to leave. He brought very little, if no, furniture himself -- he owns TVs. I either bought everything else, or brought it with me from my family's homes. It is an entire apartment's worth of furniture and belongings.

He has said things in the heat of the moment of a fight that made me think he may screw me over. Then he later states he doesn't mean what he says. A lot of things are said in the heat of the moment.
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Last edited by Have Hope; May 14, 2020 at 05:38 AM.
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