Even if things don't work out, I haven't lost anything... may have learned something.

I need to learn to balance over-trusting with "benefit of the doubt". He could be genuine and we just need to learn how to communicate with each other OR he could be hiding something (he's a little over an hour away).

Was I right in thinking... "If a guy really wants to see me, he will MAKE it happen... especially with over a week lead time" or could I have been more flexible and agreed to meet later?

It is early in the relationship, so could I have cleared up that while we don't need to talk live daily, it's better to NOT promise to call so I'm not disappointed or at least send a quick text if plans change? Is it too early for that?

We haven't really had a "deep" conversation. I've been careful not to share too much. I've had Narcs turn everything I've shared with them around on my and be really hurtful. I thought it may be best before going too deep, but would sharing some of where the meltdown comes from help with understanding or make me look psycho?

HOW DO I KNOW IF HE'S A NARC?!?!?! THAT'S MY BIGGEST FEAR... THE PATTERN