Dear Avacado,

I am so terribly sorry you are in the unhappy situation you describe. It is just heartbreaking what you are going through. I wish I knew what to say that would help. You must be so frustrated. People I have loved have been addicted to alcohol and it was so tragic for everyone. My heart goes out to you and I hope others here with more wisdom and experience than me will have helpful ideas.

Sincerely yours, Yao Wen