Reading what you wrote, he did not sound very interested. It sounded like he had luke warm feelings, or was maybe just wanting to pass the time. He may have just been wanting to go slowly. But to say "I'll call you" and not keeping to that word (a few times), I'd have issues with that too, and it's unreliable. In terms of his daughter and the time issue, maybe he's just bad with making plans. Or maybe it was something else. There's not really any way of knowing. I think there are some things you can learn here too. It sounds like you're looking back and reflecting. It sounds like your past dating experiences are getting in the way of how you view people. You may want to work on this stuff in therapy before you date. Just my 2 cents. At the same time, trust your gut. Something seemed off.


He does not sound like a narc to me, from how you described. We definitely can't diagnose though.