i totally understand what you're saying, Sky.

it's just a little hard to not be on alert atm when he lives opposite me and

makes it clear he's always watching my house. ...like my door went when i

was in the bath, i ignored it but when i got out the bath there was a note

shoved thru my door saying he hoped i'd enjoyed my bath followed by

obscenities i won't repeat. a female police officer said how creepy she

found that followed by he hadn't actually broke any laws there! huh?

so...i respect that you're trying to help, i just don't know how i'm supposed

to actually manage to do it?