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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
That’s very understandable. You have a very loving relationship when it’s good, but when it’s bad...it’s rotten. There are plenty of couples who stay married like this forever.
Ideally, you can work through how he curbs his yelling at you and you stay married.
I’m not sure about giving him the ultimatum about stop or else divorce. What did the therapist say? I think if that is looming over your heads, it can’t be good.
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True enough. But I know I will not keep putting up with this. I have not given him an ultimatum yet. I have my second appt with the therapist next week, who supports me with however I need to go about this.
And yes, ideally he learns a better way of communicating and we stay married and happy together.