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Old May 15, 2020, 08:07 AM
TishaBuv TishaBuv is offline
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
Thanks Bill.

The problem though is he said he doesn't have a problem. I wish I had said "yes you do have a problem", but he quickly offered that if it happens again he will get professional help.
You could say something like, ‘When you yell at me it triggers my PTSD, gets me very upset and angry, and I just can’t live with this.’

This softens the blame, forcing him to admit he has a problem. You are just stating the fact that you are too sensitive to his yelling and it’s unacceptable.

I’m glad he agreed to counseling!
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