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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Thanks Bill. 
The problem though is he said he doesn't have a problem. I wish I had said "yes you do have a problem", but he quickly offered that if it happens again he will get professional help. |
You could say something like, ‘When you yell at me it triggers my PTSD, gets me very upset and angry, and I just can’t live with this.’
This softens the blame, forcing him to admit he has a problem. You are just stating the fact that you are too sensitive to his yelling and it’s unacceptable.
I’m glad he agreed to counseling!