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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
You are actually both triangulating with this very innocent BABY. She is experiencing cognitive disonance
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Do you think me saying "we" (dad and I) are working through things together as a means to reassure her everything is going to be ok.. as triangulation? That's not my understanding of it.
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And neither of you are recognizing how HUGE you both are to her either,
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I disagree. It's why we've adopted the Attachment Parenting model since the start. I've addressed the Emotional Parentification already so he's aware about what he's doing.. and since then, it has stopped. I managed to convince him to seek counseling to address a lot of these issues. The list goes on. I'm not a backseat mom. I'm just unable to leave this relationship right now and am trying to be hopeful things will improve with the counseling.
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She is suddenly going non verbal? Very bad sign because she is withdrawing and disassociating.
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No. She's definitely not going non-verbal. We are still very much close with her but I've noticed a pull back I want to address asap.
I think Have Hope has the right idea. I need professional support to help me deal with this as a partner and mother. Of course I'm affected. My 3yr ols is, as well. She's in the early stages.