I understand. But we aren’t acting here in a professional capacity, it’s not even allowed on here. Just peers who are on equal footing. I don’t think you’ll meet too many people on forums or in real life who think you shouldn’t leave.

But therapist would act in a different capacity. I once dated a man who had drinking problem and I was concerned. I saw a therapist and she never said a word. I broke up with a guy but she never suggested anything. In fact I was a bit frustrated that she didn’t have any opinions on what I should be doing.

I think you can even tell a therapist that you cannot afford to leave but would like some help like even if venting or with parenting. But it’s up to you of course