Thanks!

I told him I was depressed. He asked why. I said because he couldn't admit to having an anger problem when he does, and when it affects our marriage negatively. I also said I cannot work with that. He then agreed, and decided or claimed that he will watch his temper and not escalate it. Then he asked for my help to help him stop, by just saying his name. He also said we have a plan in place for if and when a fight like that does happen, ie a therapist.