Another meltdown happened from the giving mom money stupid plan, when mom screamed and cursed me out in front of my aunt and step dad. They didn’t say a word, and I ran out of there and cried while driving home. My aunt never even called to see if I was alright. So that was over impossible Mom, and not husband at all.

Mostly, the friction with Mom did not break down to me having a meltdown, although there have been a few at times.

I remember right before I got married, I stayed with Mom and she went off on me so bad, I was hysterical, and asked husband to come get me. I don’t even remember what it was over, simply that she was stressed and went ballistic.

And, of course, there were the times from young childhood with me not eating and her screaming at me at the table relentlessly until I ran away and cried hysterically in my room.