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First of all, Welcome to PC Skya .

Now, i do hope i am not over stepping things and if i am please ignore me or let me know and i will try to delete my post....

i feel your husband is using you as an easy excuse for his problems instead of taking a look at himself and fixing whats bothering himself. If you are only 10 lbs over the weight then you have been, and have had kids. then i can not see how 10 pounds on you is a real issue. Peoples bodies change and i bet his body has changed over times too...

For better or worse if hes really in love with you he would not using his prayers over 10 pounds, and he would stop putting blame on you and deal with his own issues.

i do not know you, however i feel he needs to honor you are his wife and as you gave him the gift of children, you are his children's mom and he needs to treat you like the queen you are and show you some respect.

i hope i have not offended you at all, but i am offended on how he treats you.

i hope things improve soon and he wakes up and smells the Prozac.

*Steps off Tide box now * </font>