Summer, this T has invested deeply in your life, in helping you live. This happened with my T. He gradually loosened his boundaries for me, until he didnt recognize himself as a T. My heart is broken.

I worry for you he will go too far for himself, & there will be backlash when he is a good T for you & you need him.

i think sometimes t's sincerely want to heal, and they end up giving too much.