((( HUGS )))

T sees your pain and feels helpless. He cares a great deal for you, that is why he wants you to get another evaluation.

They're in the business to help people feel better and sometimes they hurry to fix the immediate problem.
I understand where you're coming from. Something similar happened to me recently.
When I finally found the words to explain it all, it made sense to everyone.

If you really don't want to go through that, then tell T you don't need someone to fix you, (they can't anyway)
you just need someone to support you. Him.