Hello. I am having trouble with my mom. She has been drinking more and more lately and I dont know what to do. She gets so angry sometimes, at both me and my siblings. And I get so anxious when she drinks. When either of my parents drink (i only live with my mom. My dad is a recovered alcoholic). I feel so angry and frustrated with her. My mother drinking is making me start to develop feelings of resentment towards her and I dont like it. Im not close to her anymore. She thinks we are, but we arent. I feel worried to even talk to her about anything. She also has this idea in her head that she is the ideal mother.

But back to the point. Why do i get so anxious and angry when she drinks? I often get to the point where I get argumentative and confrontational with her. Also, why does she drink? Even though she knows I hate it.