I'm starting to not like him no matter how good on paper he is. My arms worker says he'd be a healthy relationship. I disagree. He smokes pot, has angry outbursts, cares too much about his stuff like too much. I get it he worked hard for it but stuff breaks, gets old, wears out. I just see his caring so much as a red flag. Frankly, I gave him a shot cause he checks so many boxes on my pros and cons list but honestly there's no chemistry and the cons are too much now.

What I liked and who he is aren't right for me. Now to tell him. He really likes me and was listening to all my suggestions but i really don't like him. Well I figured it out.