Six years or so of friendship is a considerable time. Or I’m totally silly or some people are able to blame others for the more stupid reasons and take for granted the most valuable aspect that is friendship.
I’m sorry you have to deal with it.

I do understand what you say about being abused and not distinguish very well between an abused treat and a love one. As sad as it sounds, it makes sense. It means you are gonna try to be smarter than others and stronger than others to set boundaries. Don’t be hard on yourself.

I’m sorry a lot.