
May 19, 2020, 11:28 AM
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Originally Posted by WovenGalaxy
This is for me. (not about anybody on pc)
Dear bully,
Yeah, you. The one who always has to be right, the one who wouldn't respect my boundaries when we were "friends." The manipulative one. The one who projects their issues onto everyone else. The one in need of intense therapy, the mean one. Yeah, you.
I see you . You are scared, sad, and you are angry with anyone who doesn't agree with you or make you feel like the "dominant" one. It is very funny (in a genuine comical way) how nice you think you are. Compassion and consideration, I'm not sure you've actually looked up the definitions.
I'm not the only one. There are others (many) who you have been mean to because they have been honest with you about how you treat people, because they have said "no" to you and that angered you, because they were good people and you couldn't handle it and took it as a threat, because you were bored and needed something to do and didn't have the skills to do something healthy that would serve you well.
It is interesting how much time you've dedicated to lying, building up your facade, and bullying. I...feel sorry for you. I feel sorry for any bully that exists in the world.
I have caught wind of your life, and hear it's horrible. You hate your job, you're in an abusive relationship, you spend your time hurting others, and hating others.
My wish for you, bully, yeah, you, bully...is that your life gets better, starting with you. I wish for you to get therapy. I wish for you to apologize to all the people you hate on. I wish for you self awareness, humility, and love (I'm not sure you've ever known it).
Sincerely,
A strong and healthy person and one of the many you have tried to bully
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This is a beautiful and brave letter! I think we have all been subject to someone like your bully before, and I think writing this letter and putting it out there (not to your bully but just speaking the words of your own courage and peace) will help you heal. I think there is a great deal of healing that comes from speaking how we feel, letting it out, and knowing it does not define or control us.
Good for you!
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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