Dear Jamowi,

Just read your post and want to tell you how terribly sorry I am that you are in such turmoil and anguish. It can be so hard to get over people. At least this has been my experience. Sometimes it seems like the brain itself has a mind of its own and it can be so difficult to do what is in our best interest. I do hope you find some peace of mind. It must be so distressing to be caught in such a dreadful and distressing situation. I wish you only the best in this crisis and in your life.

Sincerely yours, Yao Wen