perhaps I should have elaborated more.. we've argued over this video game time and time again..

he was 45 minutes late for one date we had planned because he was playing that video game with friends and couldn't bring himself to tell the guys he had to go because he had plans with me.. since that argument, most times I can't even get him to commit to an actual time for anything - he always gives me the "let's say somewhere between 9 and 9:30 just in case the run runs late" - like he can't tell the guys ahead of time he has to log out of the game at a specific time because he has plans with me..

the day I found out my ex was filing for custody of my children and was really shaken up and needed to talk to him, he wouldn't even log out of that game - but rather told me to talk to him about it in-between fights..

again and again, there's been fights over that stupid video game.. again and again, he's promised he wouldn't put anything to do with the game before me.. having that video game come before me yet again - and on valentines day - when we were *in the middle* of our plans together.. it was the last straw for me.. I just don't understand why anything going on with that game couldn't have waited until after we had finished our special night..