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Originally Posted by BabyLoves
I think it's deplorable. He should call you since he's taking it upon himself to keep everyone informed.
I think it's wrong on so many levels. It reminds me of my siblings and they actually make me I'll with the things they do. They are crass and offensive and follow no sense of protocol or etiquette.
Please talk with your family and encourage him to stop what he has done in the past. There has to be a way you can stay informed about family life events without it being so crass.
Good Luck and God Bless 🙏.
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Ha! Everything you said. In fact, that was the word I used, crass. And you are right, no one gave him this role, he took it upon himself.
I did go up against him and texted him to either call me or nothing...the next time. Personally I really hate finding out about relatives dying through email or a phone text. He has four siblings. If it is too much for him to call (he's retired) he should give the job to someone else.
I never "go up against" this brother and I have now done so twice in as many weeks...so I feel odd, I must say. Setting boundaries is never easy for me. Thank you for your support. I cannot tell you how meaningful it is to me.
