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Old May 19, 2020, 06:14 PM
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Originally Posted by BlueSkyGirl View Post
He does all our financing. I need his support to buy me somewhere to stay. But I’m leaning towards being more stern about it. I don’t want to be in this relationship anymore. I need space to heal and think.
I don't quite understand. Couldn't you leave and just rent a small apartment since you work full time? Why do you need him to "buy" you a place to stay? Are you able to afford an apartment on your own salary? Just because he manages the finances, doesn't mean you cannot take control over your own life and your own financial situation. Find a way. Where there's a will there's a way -- always.
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