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Originally Posted by Have Hope
I don't quite understand. Couldn't you leave and just rent a small apartment since you work full time? Why do you need him to "buy" you a place to stay? Are you able to afford an apartment on your own salary? Just because he manages the finances, doesn't mean you cannot take control over your own life and your own financial situation. Find a way. Where there's a will there's a way -- always.
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I agree but there might be some issue with taking kids, you can’t just take the kids, I mean you can but he might say he wants to keep them. I think the best is to consult with a lawyer ASAP re custody of kids and living arrangement during separation.
PS actually I forgot about abuse issues, since CPS was involved and visited home twice, it’s unlikely he will have full custody of them so it might be perfectly fine to take kids with you for their own safety