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Old May 19, 2020, 08:37 PM
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Hi. I met this woman on a dating app. We were chatting through the same app for a while, and then we exchanged phone numbers. I was the one who always started the conversation, except for a couple of times. The first time, she sent me a screen cap of some cute thought that applied to us. The second time, she sent me a picture of the place where she works at. I told that it was nice, and she replied with an audio message, where she sounded so warm and happy. I really like her voice. She sounds so calm, and sometimes, really sweet.

We have been talking for a month or so. I told her that I like her, and that I wanted to go out with her, once the lockdown ends. She said yes, and that she felt the same about me.

Last time, she wanted to see some pictures of some work that I've been doing at home. I've sent some pics to her. Then, she replied with an audio message. She sounded happy for me, said that it was a nice job. I asked her a couple of questions, and she didn't reply until now (1 day).

I just don't know what to think. I tried to use this as an opportunity to grow, to let go of my anxiousness and fear of abandonment. Clearly, it didn't work, or it did...at least for a while. Everytime that I thought "She won't talk to me again", she replied...always. I know, she has a life, and so do I, but it makes no sense to me, not having some time to talk/chat, if you really like the other person. Maybe she is trying to tell me to not approach her again. At first, I felt angry for something that, I now think, it doesn't seem a logical reason at all. Then, I just felt sad. Maybe it was something that I said, or didn't said.

I decided to wait and see until Friday if she talks to me again, dispelling all my negative thoughts. If she doesn't, I'll send her a message asking if everything it's alright with "us", just to be done with the overthinking. I just wanted to ask for some advice, some common sense, which I know I lack.
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