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May 20, 2020, 08:31 AM
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Originally Posted by WovenGalaxy
I do not really know if my bully will change. I'm not holding my breath though. I've booted this person from my life. It would be fantastic if they changed. But I know we can't change anyone, nor do I want to be involved with them to try to "help.".
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It's more likely that your bully would gaslight you if they read this or try to blame it all on you.
It's good that you know the boundaries and know better than to try and "help" them. They likely do need help, but they need to get it from someone else. Allow we can do is hope or pray for them that they seek help for their problems. Bullies are usually taking their issues out on others. So hopefully they eventually seek help and see their behaviors and change them so they dont hurt others anymore. But don't hold your breath for an apology. Lol.
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