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Originally Posted by DechanDawa
It's funny how we will adapt to one thing but not another. I do send and receive photos on my phone.
Maybe I don't know what I am talking about.
I have been resisting being plugged into a phone all the time. I have been this way since the beginning. I never talk on my phone when I am out. Like never. I wait until I am home. Unless it is business related, then I will take calls in my parked vehicle.
Okay...there's this. I was a serious meditation practitioner for 25 years. I think it affected me in that I do like to stay in the present. Too much media is distracting. I haven't had a television for 15 years. I stream on my laptop but not very much.
Well, you know I contribute a lot on Psych Central. But I only belong to one online community at a time. I keep my Facebook friends to under 25!
I keep my Facebook to family and a few old friends.
I guess one of these days I will get a Smartphone. I guess I am much more of an introvert than I thought. I have one brother who has never had a computer! Ever. It's crazy but I feel the closest to him. He sends me gifts all the time...books...hoodies...earrings...things he picks up at flea markets. He sends me music in the form of CD's. (It's not just me. He sends everyone gifts.) And he writes real letters and sends handmade cards and artwork. He has a Smartphone and sends me pictures of hiking trails in the Northwest. The point is...he really knows how to stay connected. (This brother called me and he was very distressed about hearing of our cousin's passing via group text. So I wasn't completely alone in this. He said it really depressed him to hear the news in that manner.)
My brother had his own business and I guess he managed to run it without a computer and retired before it became impossible. He calls and texts a family member every single day. He is in touch with everyone...from great Aunts and Uncles all the way down to the newest wee babe...who was named after him. He writes articles for gardening magazines and sends his stuff in handwritten. I wouldn't say he isn't busy...as he is always helping someone in his community...building a fence for them...or helping pick up groceries...or painting their shed.
It is possible to use technology wisely because my oldest brother does that.
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Your brother sounds like a great guy! How nice of him to send gifts. Very sweet!
Generally speaking whatever works for one person or for one family isn’t always what works for others. As long as it’s not rude or causes problems in people’s life whatever is a wise use of technology is subjective.
I think it’s just how things work for individual situation and life style and personality
Having said that, informing about death is different and generally texting might not be the best but again some people might not care. Not informing at all like in case of your brothers is almost unforgivable