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Old May 20, 2020, 06:37 PM
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I don't know, people. I am having to ask my husband to have more sex and to make out more. This doesn't feel normal. NO, he is NOT cheating, nor does he have feelings for someone else, so please do not even go there. I know this for a fact. I know he loves me. It's just that we're both middle aged, we're exhausted and stressed from work and our physical life is just lacking...... I don't know if this is normal for middle aged working adults or not. But it feels off., and I told him so last night. He said it's just exhaustion and stress. We cuddle and snuggle each other close and tight every night. I just don't get it. I feel sex deprived and I am suffering from it. He says we'll work on it. And let it be known. he has to take viagra, so there's that part of our middle age that is a factor. And he's in a LOT of physical pain with his back. He is now seeing a chiropractor, upon my insisting. I just voiced to him that I miss sex, I miss the passion we used to have and I miss making out.

We've had a hell of a year.

So I don't know if this will last. I love him, he loves me, but it may/may not work.
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Last edited by Have Hope; May 20, 2020 at 06:53 PM.