This is so crazy because I don't think I have ever discussed this with anyone. No, I don't recall my ex being embarrassed. No. He wasn't like that. We both thought his brother was kind of a jerk. But, darn, I really can't believe this. His brother was this very powerful Alpha dude and it was impossible to argue with him. Same with his wife. But I do recall this event and I do recall it was all about my not being able to attend for religious reasons.

If my ex thought otherwise he would have just told me that they were being jerks and I would have understood that. It's weird because I don't talk to my ex so can't confirm this. I think at the time he was just crazy with grief and I think that's what he would say now. He would probably say he couldn't remember the details. Also, a lot of other stuff was going on at the time I can't go into...so it was a stressful period.

I am glad I talked about this because I am glad to hear that was wrong. If I told my ex about this conversation I think he would be surprised but he would say...oh well, we always knew they were jerks.