My husband is now depressed and is not feeling good after our talk last night. This morning I told him I love him and he said "I hope so".

Perhaps I should not have said we'll have to separate if this continues and is the same in 3 months, but it just popped out of my mouth.

I miss having sexual intimacy with him, but I also know he's been in an insane amount of pain. At the same time, I told him 3 months ago that I wanted more physical intimacy and it hasn't happened. Nothing has changed.

And COVID is NOT helping. We've been cooped up for over two months now and it's gotten to both of us....very much so. We haven't see friends and we haven't gone out (I know that no one can), and it's effecting both of us. Add onto that some tough conversations about our marriage and work stress, well, and it's all just too much.