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Originally Posted by guy1111
I only read about half of this thread so I apologize if you already covered this topic. You keep mentioning intimacy as a problem. Then in one of the last threads you mentioned that you are certain he is not cheating on you. Have you considered he might be using pornography and masturbation? This would also affect your level of intimacy.
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He knows that porn is a TOTAL dealbreaker for me. And when I say dealbreaker, I mean I will walk away from the relationship. When we first started dating, I told him that porn cannot be a part of my relationship with anyone. He agreed that it can be problematic for a relationship and he agreed to not watch porn. I have recently asked him point blank IF he is using porn instead. He told me NO, he is not. He also claims he is not even masturbating and that he doesn't want to do anything sexual without me. So either he is completely lying or it's the truth. So the answer is I don't really know for certain.
One thing I DO know for certain: he is truly in an enormous amount of physical pain. His back and shoulder are in sheer agony and have been for at least a couple months now. He is finally seeing a chiropractor. He cannot even sleep on one side and cuddle with me on that side because he's in so much pain. I witness it, so I am hoping that that's all it is.