I hear you about pain! It’s hard right now with any kind of pain because of covid.

My husband needs complete shoulder replacement and it was scheduled and then covid hit and his doctor said it will have to wait a bit! Not only it’s terrible pain but he has a very limited motion on that arm.

Did your husband see a doctor about his shoulder? Is it arthritis? My husband tried physical therapy because his doctor said let’s do that first, then surgery. But surgeon said physical therapy is pointless when is that bad. So we are just waiting for a surgeon to be ready to do the surgery. I hope your husband gets this under control. He shouldn’t be incapacitated at 47.

How does he not masturbate? Like not at all? Never? Everyone masturbates. You can masturbate when you are in pain and can’t do normal intercourse because you can accommodate how you do it. Masturbating isn’t cheating. Is he very religious? I am not saying he is lying but maybe he is embarrassed or there is something else going on. He completely lacks sexual feeling up to the point of not masturbating? Honestly its not typical. If he truly never masturbates then there is some psychological issue there. Severe depression that needs treatment? I feel like he just isn’t explaining it well and it becomes guessing game for you. Sorry to be blunt.

I hope he gets his health under control