I think you’ve forgotten that this person is still a stranger to you. The two of you have never met. In my opinion the best course of action here would be to set up a date and make it happen sooner or later. This should be your one and only goal since we can’t really tell who you’re dealing with via text or audio messages. A face-to-face session with her could be a game changer here. So until that day comes, my advice to you is to forget about any expectations, keep a cool head, and, no matter how difficult it is, leave the emotions out of this and be reasonable. You can do this. I wish you good luck.