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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Maybe, giving her the benefit of the doubt, the wife who called the shots about saying you couldn’t come to the funeral, honestly mistakenly believed that was the case.
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Could be. Still rude. I’d think someone would say something. Probably just ignorance. Two funerals ten years apart and they wouldn’t look up or ask someone that they can’t exclude brother’s wife from funerals.
People already have all kind of uneducated ideas about Jews and Jewish customs. I’d not want people to think that Jews have these kind of customs about excluding close family. We have enough nonsense believed about us